Zanafilla e jet\u00ebs mbi tok\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb: Zoti krijoi burrin t\u00eb parin dhe prej brinjes s\u00eb tij gruan. Ne jemi rritur me dy gjini, me bab\u00ebn dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebn, me gjyshin dhe gjyshen, me v\u00ebllan\u00eb dhe motr\u00ebn, me shokun dhe shoqen.<\/p>\n
Prandaj, tendenca p\u00ebr t\u00eb keqp\u00ebrdorur fjal\u00ebn \u201cburrneshe\u201d m\u00eb duket jo vet\u00ebm e patetike, por e pavend.<\/p>\n
Nga gjyshrit, por dhe leximi i librave m\u00eb ka m\u00ebsuar se:\u201dVirgj\u00ebreshat e betuara\u201d , ose burrneshat, nuk jan\u00eb nj\u00eb anomali historike, ato jan\u00eb nj\u00eb d\u00ebshmi e q\u00ebndres\u00ebs dhe zgjedhjes s\u00eb vetvetes brenda kufijve t\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie patriarkale. <\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb grua b\u00ebhet burrnesh\u00eb duke u betuar me nj\u00eb betim t\u00eb parevokuesh\u00ebm, para dymb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb fshatrave ose pleqve fisnor\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar beqari dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrvet\u00ebsuar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb q\u00eb shkon p\u00ebrtej pritshm\u00ebrive t\u00eb saj gjinore.<\/p>\n
Pas betimit, burrnesha lejohet t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb si nj\u00eb burr\u00eb. Ajo mund t\u00eb vishet me rroba mashkullore, t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00eb emrin mashkullor, t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb arm\u00eb, t\u00eb pij\u00eb alkool, t\u00eb marr\u00eb pun\u00ebt e meshkujve dhe t\u00eb luaj\u00eb rolin e kreut t\u00eb familjes. <\/p>\n
N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, burrnesha nuk k\u00ebrkon vet\u00ebm lirin\u00eb e vet, ajo k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb kuptohet dhe t\u00eb respektohet sipas parimeve q\u00eb vet\u00eb ka zgjedhur, ndaj ajo sfidon pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb, por gjithmon\u00eb me nj\u00eb seriozitet t\u00eb rr\u00ebnjosur n\u00eb betimin e saj.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb grua mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet burrnesh\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do mosh\u00eb, shpesh p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur prind\u00ebrit ose p\u00ebr t\u00eb ruajtur dinjitetin e familjes kur nj\u00eb djal\u00eb nuk ishte dh\u00ebn\u00eb nga zoti. Ky akt nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb kompromis, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sakrific\u00eb e vet\u00ebdijshme, nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb kontrollin mbi jet\u00ebn dhe fatin e saj n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk i jep hap\u00ebsir\u00eb gruas.<\/p>\n
Thyerja e premtimit dikur d\u00ebnohej me vdekje. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb rregull i rrept\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tregues i seriozitetit dhe fisnik\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb betimit. Ai simbolizon fuqin\u00eb e vendimit t\u00eb burrnesh\u00ebs, integritetin e saj dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb merr p\u00ebr zgjedhjet e veta.<\/p>\n
Sot, fjala burrnesh\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret shpesh p\u00ebr t\u00eb lavd\u00ebruar karakterin e fort\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb gruaje, p\u00ebr t\u00eb glorifikuar q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebrin\u00eb ose pavar\u00ebsin\u00eb e saj. <\/p>\n
T\u00eb t\u00eb thon\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb burrnesha nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb metafor\u00eb e leht\u00eb e fort\u00ebsis\u00eb, por nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim i sakrific\u00ebs, guximit dhe fisnik\u00ebris\u00eb, q\u00eb shprehet n\u00eb nj\u00eb betim t\u00eb parevokuesh\u00ebm dhe n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme t\u00eb gruas q\u00eb e mban at\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Burrnesha \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb em\u00ebr n\u00eb form\u00ebn e nj\u00eb titull ose nj\u00eb veprim dhe kurr\u00ebsesi nuk l\u00ebn\u00eb vend p\u00ebr keqinterpretime gjinore\u2026 <\/p>\n
T\u00eb b\u00ebhesh burrnesh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb jetese, nj\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsim i fuqis\u00eb s\u00eb integritetit dhe nj\u00eb kujtes\u00eb se dinjiteti mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkohet, ruhet dhe jetoj\u00eb edhe n\u00eb kushtet m\u00eb t\u00eb rrepta t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. <\/p>\n
Keqp\u00ebrdorimi i figur\u00ebs s\u00eb saj sot \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb pav\u00ebmendje, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb harrim i sakrific\u00ebs s\u00eb grave, q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb zgjedhje t\u00eb pal\u00ebkundshme dhe fisnike.<\/p>\n
( pres vrejtje, por nuk besoj se ma kan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar keq fjal\u00ebn burrnesh\u00eb)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Zanafilla e jet\u00ebs mbi tok\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb: Zoti krijoi burrin t\u00eb parin dhe prej brinjes s\u00eb tij gruan. Ne jemi rritur me dy gjini, me bab\u00ebn dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebn, me gjyshin dhe gjyshen, me v\u00ebllan\u00eb dhe motr\u00ebn, me shokun dhe shoqen. Prandaj, tendenca p\u00ebr t\u00eb keqp\u00ebrdorur fjal\u00ebn \u201cburrneshe\u201d m\u00eb duket jo vet\u00ebm e patetike, por […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":92395,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-92394","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-te-tjera"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92394","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=92394"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92394\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":92396,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92394\/revisions\/92396"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92395"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=92394"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=92394"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=92394"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}