N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vendin ton\u00eb \u201cfole shqiponjash\u201d, nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb dymb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7, \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuar nga babai q\u00eb kur ishte pes\u00eb vje\u00e7.
\nK\u00ebt\u00eb lajm shokues e m\u00ebsuam nga lajmet sot.<\/p>\n
Pra, p\u00ebr shtat\u00eb vjet ky f\u00ebmij\u00eb i vetem jeton mes ferrit\u2026
\nShtat\u00eb vjet heshtje, shtat\u00eb vjet makth, shtat\u00eb vjet err\u00ebsir\u00eb n\u00eb trupin dhe shpirtin e nj\u00eb vajze q\u00eb duhej t\u00eb luante me kukulla, jo t\u00eb fshihej nga tmerret.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb ku flak\u00ebt e ferrit b\u00ebhen t\u00eb padurueshme dhe m\u00eb n\u00eb fund ajo merr guximin t\u00eb flas\u00eb,t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb ndihm\u00eb,t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb drejt\u00ebsi,\u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebn ky vend?<\/p>\n
E p\u00ebrdhunon p\u00ebr s\u00eb dyti.<\/p>\n
Me titujt e portaleve, mediave.
\nMe emrin, mbiemrin, fshatin, sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, rrug\u00ebn.
\nMe fotografin\u00eb e port\u00ebs. Me komshiun q\u00eb \u201ce dinte\u201d me n\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb flet me z\u00eb dhe figur\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Me fytyrat q\u00eb shp\u00ebrndajn\u00eb si \u201clajm trondit\u00ebs\u201d dhe nuk ndalojn\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ast p\u00ebr t\u00eb menduar se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Jo nj\u00eb lajm. Jo nj\u00eb statistik\u00eb. Jo nj\u00eb klikim\u2026.<\/p>\n
E tronditur nga ky lajm dhe ky lum\u00eb mediatik me tituj shokues pyes:
\nKush e p\u00ebrdhunoi k\u00ebt\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb?
\nVet\u00ebm babai?
\nApo edhe shteti q\u00eb nuk ka nd\u00ebrtuar asnj\u00eb mekaniz\u00ebm parandalimi?<\/p>\n
Se ky vendi yn\u00eb, nuk ka struktura mbrojtjeje p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb rrezik, as psikolog\u00eb n\u00eb shkolla se vetem rrog\u00ebn marrin gj\u00eb prej gj\u00ebje nuk din\u00eb, as sistem raportimi t\u00eb sigurt, as nd\u00ebshkime t\u00eb rrepta p\u00ebr monstrat\u2026 <\/p>\n
Po media,q\u00eb e rropullit\u00eb dhimbjen n\u00eb tituj, q\u00eb e zhvesh publikisht nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb thyer pa pik\u00eb njer\u00ebzill\u00ebku, m\u00ebshire\u2026<\/p>\n
Apo edhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne, me heshtjen ton\u00eb, me indiferenc\u00ebn ton\u00eb, me \u201cmos na trazo jet\u00ebn\u201d <\/p>\n
Ky sistem nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht i korruptuar.
\nKy sistem vret pafaj\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb ka filluar ta b\u00ebj\u00eb publikisht, me kamera, me lajme \u201cekskluzive\u201d, me nj\u00eb shfaqje q\u00eb na zbavit p\u00ebr 24 or\u00eb, derisa t\u00eb vij\u00eb viktima tjet\u00ebr\u2026 <\/p>\n
Nuk e dua k\u00ebt\u00eb vend, n\u00ebse nuk mbrohen f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.
\nNuk e dua k\u00ebt\u00eb \u201ctransparenc\u00eb\u201d q\u00eb zhvesh nj\u00eb viktim\u00eb, por mbron nj\u00eb kriminel.
\nNuk e dua k\u00ebt\u00eb drejt\u00ebsi, q\u00eb hesht p\u00ebr shtat\u00eb vjet dhe pastaj na jep nj\u00eb titull: \u201cNgjarje trondit\u00ebse.\u201d<\/p>\n
Trondit\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ende nuk jemi ngritur.
\nTrondit\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019po k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb ligje t\u00eb reja, d\u00ebnime m\u00eb t\u00eb ashpra, mbrojtje reale p\u00ebr viktimat.
\nTrondit\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb kemi m\u00eb shum\u00eb gazetar\u00eb se psikolog\u00eb n\u00eb vendngjarje.
\nM\u00eb shum\u00eb klikime, sesa nd\u00ebrgjegje.<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb nuk e pranoj dot k\u00ebt\u00eb realitet. Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bashk\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ngrihemi mbi p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit tona, si prind, si edukator, si qytetar dhe p\u00ebr \u00e7do rast t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb llogari,sepse ndryshe po nuk reaguam, nes\u00ebr do p\u00ebrs\u00ebritet historia dhe ne do b\u00ebhemi bashk\u00ebfajtor\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vendin ton\u00eb \u201cfole shqiponjash\u201d, nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb dymb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7, \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuar nga babai q\u00eb kur ishte pes\u00eb vje\u00e7. K\u00ebt\u00eb lajm shokues e m\u00ebsuam nga lajmet sot. Pra, p\u00ebr shtat\u00eb vjet ky f\u00ebmij\u00eb i vetem jeton mes ferrit\u2026 Shtat\u00eb vjet heshtje, shtat\u00eb vjet makth, shtat\u00eb vjet err\u00ebsir\u00eb n\u00eb trupin dhe shpirtin e nj\u00eb vajze q\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":90309,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-90308","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-te-tjera"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90308","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=90308"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90308\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":90311,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90308\/revisions\/90311"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90309"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=90308"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=90308"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=90308"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}