Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi produkt i rrethanave dhe i aft\u00ebsis\u00eb ton\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kthyer disavantazhin n\u00eb avantazh, por edhe e kund\u00ebrta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj e mundur . Talenti \u00ebsht\u00eb nje avantazh , bukuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb avantazh, inteligjenca \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb avantazh, t\u00eb lind\u00ebsh n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb pasur e pozicionuar n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb avantazh, t\u00eb cilat mund t\u00eb kthehen n\u00eb disavantazh n\u00ebse njeriu nuk m\u00ebson t\u00eb dalloj\u00eb fijen e holl\u00eb q\u00eb ndan avantazhin me disavantazhin apo si\u00e7 thon\u00eb ekonomist\u00ebt, pik\u00ebn kritike ku kostot e avantazhit tejkalojn\u00eb p\u00ebrfitimet q\u00eb mund t\u00eb vijn\u00eb prej tij .
\nKet\u00eb e kuptova, kur nj\u00eb prej profesorave t\u00eb mi t\u00eb universitetit m\u00eb quajti “nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb me inteligjenc\u00eb arrogante ” . Ishte koha kur besimi se inteligjenca ishte arma ime e fort\u00eb, nuk m\u00eb lejonte t\u00eb njihja rrethanat ku gjendesha dhe t\u00eb akomodoja n\u00eb vendin e duhur ambicjet e mia .<\/p>\n
Shpesh avantazhet i konsiderojn\u00eb absolute . Madje ne e projektojm\u00eb vler\u00ebn e talentit, inteligjenc\u00ebs, apo aft\u00ebsive tona t\u00eb njejt\u00eb si n\u00eb pellgun e vog\u00ebl shqiptar ashtu edhe n\u00eb oqeanet e m\u00ebdha amerikane, angleze apo edhe europiane.<\/p>\n
Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb relative. Kur njeriu nuk e pranon teorin\u00eb e relativitetit si t\u00eb aplikueshme edhe tek avantazhet e tij , duke e len\u00eb veten t\u00eb drejtohet ter\u00ebsisht nga ambicja t\u00eb cil\u00ebs shpesh i vendos emrin e bukur “end\u00ebrr ” i krijon vetes nj\u00eb nga d\u00ebmet m\u00eb t\u00eb medha n\u00eb mir\u00ebqenien psikologjike e m\u00eb pas edhe at\u00eb ekonomike. <\/p>\n
Ndaj p\u00ebrshtatja \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrmbi renditjen !<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb studimi i Universitetetit t\u00eb Standford tregon sesi mij\u00ebra student\u00eb, p\u00ebsojn\u00eb kriz\u00eb identiteti, kur p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre, nuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb krye t\u00eb klas\u00ebs. Zhg\u00ebnjimi krijon stres dhe presion, duke penguar zhvillimin e tyre personal, pasi vet\u00ebbesimi i njeriut dhe kofidenca e tij mb\u00ebshteten kryesisht tek krahasimi me grupin ku b\u00ebn pjes\u00eb. Ndaj \u00ebsht\u00eb demoralizuese t\u00eb jesh nj\u00eb “peshk i vog\u00ebl n\u00eb nj\u00eb det t\u00eb madh” , dhe shpesh \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e shendetshme t\u00eb jesh nj\u00eb peshk i madh n\u00eb nj\u00eb det t\u00eb vog\u00ebl .<\/p>\n
K\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebsim e jep edhe eksperienca e impresionist\u00ebve nje grup artist\u00ebsh , (asnj\u00ebri i njohur), q\u00eb e kishin t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb shisnin qoft\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb punim t\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00eb Franc\u00eb. E gjith\u00eb kjo, sepse tregu i piktur\u00ebs ishte i rregulluar dhe shijet zyrtarizoheshin nga \u201cAcad\u00e9mie Des Beaux-Arts\u201d, e cila zhvillonte nj\u00eb ekspozit\u00eb vjetore. Si e till\u00eb, ekspozita kishte standarde shum\u00eb rigoroze q\u00eb nj\u00eb vep\u00ebr t\u00eb mund t\u00eb quhej \u201cGood Art\u201d (Art i Mir\u00eb). Impresionist\u00ebt pikturonin \u201cjet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme\u201d, jasht\u00eb kornizave t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuara zyrtarisht. \u00c7do dit\u00eb ishin n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb suksesit, i cili kuptuan se nuk mund t\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb vetme. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb, n\u00eb vend t\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjeve p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb ekspozit\u00ebn e madhe franceze, ata filluan t\u00eb organizonin ekspozitat e tyre t\u00eb vogla. Kreativiteti i tyre mund\u00ebsoi lul\u00ebzimin e disa l\u00ebvizjeve n\u00eb art dhe secili grup sot \u00ebsht\u00eb i famsh\u00ebm dhe pjes\u00eb e gjith\u00eb muzeumeve t\u00eb bot\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
E pra me koh\u00ebn e kuptova se profesori im kishte t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. Sot akoma p\u00ebrpiqem q\u00eb arroganca dhe ambicja t\u00eb mos ma kthej\u00eb inteligjenc\u00ebn n\u00eb disavantazh .<\/p>\n
Por kur ka ndodhur ( e dreqi e mori ka ndodhur shpesh ) zgjidhja nuk ka qen\u00eb keqardhja qoft\u00eb edhe e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb dashur , p\u00ebrkundrazi , d\u00ebshira e brendshme dhe besimi se mund t\u00eb ringrihem s\u00ebrisht pa humbur m\u00ebsimin .<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi produkt i rrethanave dhe i aft\u00ebsis\u00eb ton\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kthyer disavantazhin n\u00eb avantazh, por edhe e kund\u00ebrta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj e mundur . Talenti \u00ebsht\u00eb nje avantazh , bukuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb avantazh, inteligjenca \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb avantazh, t\u00eb lind\u00ebsh n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb pasur e pozicionuar n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb avantazh, t\u00eb cilat […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":85332,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-85331","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-te-tjera"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85331","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=85331"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85331\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":85333,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85331\/revisions\/85333"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/85332"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=85331"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=85331"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=85331"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}