-A thua q\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u201cGazet\u00eb popullore\u201d t\u00eb njeriut t\u00eb lir\u00eb mund ta kthejm\u00eb n\u00eb \u201cfurrnalt\u00eb\u201d mendimi dhe idesh?-
\n(N\u00eb vend t\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201cFlet-Rrufeje\u201d t\u00eb dikurshme)
\nP\u00ebr gati nj\u00eb dekad\u00eb un\u00eb \u201cu divorcova\u201d me FB. Kjo koh\u00eb \u201ckarantin\u00eb\u201d m\u00eb dha ca lloj impulsesh interesante. Mendoja m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr vete. U fokusova n\u00eb ide biznesi, ku imeshoqe ishte \u201cpozit\u00eb dhe opozit\u00eb\u201d.Ne udh\u00ebtonim s\u00eb bashku n\u00ebp\u00ebr Minneapolis, p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb \u201ct\u00eb stomen\u201d. Ju nuk e dini se sa ide kemi \u201cp\u00ebrleshur\u201d me nj\u00ebri tjetrin. Bashk\u00ebfati im duke q\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr gati nj\u00eb dekad\u00eb korrektore e verpave t\u00eb shokut Enver, her\u00eb pas her\u00eb do m\u00eb thoshte: \u201cEkonomia \u00ebsht\u00eb grusht vdekjeprur\u00ebs p\u00ebr armikun\u2026\u201d. Un\u00eb qeshja. Ajo vijonte: \u201cKur ke, nuk t\u00eb do kush. Kur nuk ke, t\u00eb m\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. Nuk dua t\u00eb m\u00ebshirohem nga askush\u201d\u2026
\n Dhe ne nd\u00ebrtuam nj\u00eb biznes ku do vinte koha q\u00eb \u201ct\u00eb tjer\u00ebt punojn\u00eb p\u00ebr ne\u201d.Nuk ishte \u201chap e mbyll syt\u00eb\u201d por rug\u00eb e gjat\u00eb\u00eb. Ne \u201cpunuam p\u00ebr ta\u201d kur ishte moment dhe \u201cdivorci\u201d me FB. Ne tashm\u00eb kemi krijuar nj\u00eb lloj biznesi q\u00eb \u201cshfryt\u00ebzojm\u00eb ndershm\u00ebrisht\u201d t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb realitet i habitsh\u00ebm kapitalisto-amerikan, ku ndershm\u00ebria dhe transparenca n\u00eb biznes shp\u00ebrblehet dhe ti vijon \u201cvozitjen\u201d e biznesit me t\u00eb papriturat e veta\u2026
\n M\u00eb risolli n\u00eb FB, Fatos Bylykbashi pak vite m\u00eb par\u00eb. Nuk di se si nj\u00eb sh\u00ebnim i tij erdhi tek un\u00eb dhe befas isha p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb \u201cVallen\u201d e FB. Ishte si nj\u00eb \u201cRingjallje Krishti\u201d, ku befas takon shok\u00eb, miq, kujtime, nostalgji dhe \u201cdashuri t\u00eb fashitura\u201d. I provova t\u00eb gjitha dhe ishte nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e mir\u00eb. Me gjith\u00eb rezervat q\u00eb kam p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb \u201cgazet\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore\u201d, p\u00ebrs\u00ebri kam nj\u00eb merak: Si mundet ky \u201cinstrument\u201d i paimagjinuesh\u00ebm m\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb dobi njer\u00ebzore?… Besoj se secili ka jet\u00ebn e vet. Shpesh \u201cJeta jote\u201d nuk mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb \u201cJeta ime\u201d. Por duke v\u00ebzhguar disa pastime sociale, ku njer\u00ebzit fillojn\u00eb me \u201cfoton e m\u00ebngjezit\u201d dha mbarojn\u00eb me \u201cfoton e mbr\u00ebmjes\u201d, pyes veten: A ka jet\u00eb p\u00ebrtej fotove? A ka ide, debate, sfida mendimi q\u00eb mund t\u00eb na futin n\u00eb \u201cllav\u00eb\u201d progresi. P\u00ebr fat nuk e shoh si\u00e7 mund t\u00eb ishte. Ka mjaft mendje t\u00eb ndritura q\u00eb t\u00eb mb\u00ebrthejn\u00eb ne mendime dhe debat. Gjen ca talente vargu dhe mendimi q\u00eb t\u00eb \u201cmb\u00ebrthejn\u00eb\u201d n\u00eb llava fantazie magjike. Ka ca \u201cxix\u00ebllonja\u201d t\u00eb brezit t\u00eb tash\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb besosh se \u201cmem\u00e7uria nuk vdes kurr\u00eb\u201d, por ka edhe aq shume idjot\u00ebsi, zvarritje fotografike q\u00eb t\u00eb neverisin dhe pyet veten: \u201cPo un\u00eb \u00e7\u2019m\u00ebsoj k\u00ebtu\u201d?… Dikush kujton nj\u00eb vdekje 30 vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb, 10 vjet t\u00eb shkuara\u2026Tjetri kujton \u201cputhjen e par\u00eb\u201d nj\u00eb \u00e7erek shekulli t\u00eb shkuar\u2026K\u00ebto jan\u00eb momente p\u00ebr Ty, jo p\u00ebr mua. K\u00ebto kan\u00eb dhimbje, dashuri dhe nderim p\u00ebr Ty, jo p\u00ebr mua\u2026 Pra si mundet q\u00eb me miqt\u00eb t\u00eb ndajm\u00eb ide, projekte, debate dhe libra me vler\u00eb.
\n Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht sh\u00ebnim p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u201cdh\u00ebn\u00eb direktiva\u201d. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb reagim ndaj asaj q\u00eb shohim. Si mundet FB t\u00eb jet\u00eb mes nesh fush\u00eb mendimi dhe intelektualizmi? M\u00eb duhet t\u00eb respektoj secilin n\u00eb zgjidhjen e vet, por ju lutem a nuk jan\u00eb ca dhimbje dhe ca dashuri private si \u201cdhoma e gjumit\u201d?! \u2026
\n Nuk besoj se jam i pari t\u00eb sjell k\u00ebt\u00eb shqetsim. Edhe un\u00eb mbase sjell \u201cbudallall\u00ebqe\u201d n\u00eb postimet e mia edhe pse p\u00ebrpiqem t\u00eb jem selektiv dhe motivues duke thirrur n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb \u201c\u00e7ensur\u00ebn\u201d e djeshme. Por a nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb koah q\u00eb disa shenime t\u00eb mbeten n\u00eb \u201cbllokun e secilit\u201d?…
\n \u201cKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb liria jon\u00eb\u201d- mund t\u00eb b\u00ebrtas\u00eb secili duke m\u00eb anatemuar. I pranoj mallkimet q\u00eb mund t\u00eb shp\u00ebrthejne nga \u201cshpirtart e vdekura\u201d, por le t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb sa m\u00eb arg\u00ebtues dhe po aq intelektualisht t\u00eb dobishme k\u00ebt\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn breza t\u00eb dikursh\u00ebm jan\u00eb flijuar dhe jan\u00eb harruar.
\n Ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cmoralizimi\u201d im p\u00ebr miqt\u00eb n\u00eb qelq. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshira ime n\u00eb respekt t\u00eb secilit q\u00eb p\u00ebrjeton momente dhe drama. Sepse jeta p\u00ebrcillet duke qeshur dhe menduar, jo duke \u201cmbajtur zi\u201d p\u00ebr vdekje q\u00eb jan\u00eb harruar apo \u201csoditje fotosh\u201d nga m\u00ebngjezi n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje. Sot ne jemi ata q\u00eb nuk kemi q\u00ebn\u00eb dje. Nes\u00ebr do jemi ata q\u00eb nuk ishim nj\u00eb dit\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb. Pse rri duke v\u00ebshtruar veten t\u00ebnde sikur po vjen \u201cDita e Qametit\u201d?!… Hidh nj\u00eb ide. Thuaj di\u00e7ka e k\u00ebshtu t\u00eb gjith\u00eb \u201clundrojm\u00eb\u201d n\u00eb ide dhe debtate interesante duke i b\u00ebr\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb lloj \u201cfiskulture\u201d trurit ton\u00eb q\u00eb koha, sado q\u00eb nuk duam, na g\u00ebrryen defromon si era dikur \u201cPish\u00ebn Flamur\u201d n\u00eb Llogara q\u00eb pylltar\u00ebt t\u00eb lemerisur thon\u00eb se \u201cNuk jeton m\u00eb\u201d\u2026
\n Le t\u00eb promovojm\u00eb libra, projekte, takime, ide, fantazi, dasma e lindje… Le t\u00eb japim lajme t\u00eb mira. Le t\u00eb sjellim rreth vetes miq t\u00eb rinj. Por le ta \u201cgroposim\u201d vulgaritetin dhe idjot\u00ebsin\u00eb si \u201cshfaqe socialiste\u201d, sepse \u201cshfaqet e huaja\u201d, jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb \u201cveset tona\u201d\u2026. Qeshni se edhe un\u00eb jam duke qeshur\u2026.
\nMinneapolis, N\u00ebntor 2023<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
-A thua q\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u201cGazet\u00eb popullore\u201d t\u00eb njeriut t\u00eb lir\u00eb mund ta kthejm\u00eb n\u00eb \u201cfurrnalt\u00eb\u201d mendimi dhe idesh?- (N\u00eb vend t\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201cFlet-Rrufeje\u201d t\u00eb dikurshme) P\u00ebr gati nj\u00eb dekad\u00eb un\u00eb \u201cu divorcova\u201d me FB. Kjo koh\u00eb \u201ckarantin\u00eb\u201d m\u00eb dha ca lloj impulsesh interesante. Mendoja m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr vete. U fokusova n\u00eb ide biznesi, ku imeshoqe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":64515,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-64514","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-te-tjera"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64514","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64514"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64514\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":64516,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64514\/revisions\/64516"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/64515"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64514"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64514"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64514"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}