Letra e gjyshit p\u00ebr nip\u00ebrit! <\/p>\n
T\u00eb dashur Ryan, Conor, Brendan, Charlie dhe Mary Catherine, Rasheli im m\u00eb shtyu t\u00eb shkruaj nj\u00eb let\u00ebr me disa k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr ju, n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn t’ju tregoj gj\u00ebrat e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb kam m\u00ebsuar gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs.
\nFillova ta shkruaj n\u00eb 8 Prill 2012, n\u00eb prag t\u00eb 72 vjetorit t\u00eb lindjes time.<\/p>\n
1.Secili prej jush \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb e mrekullueshme nga Zoti, nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb p\u00ebr familjen tuaj dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn. Gjithmon\u00eb mbajeni mend k\u00ebt\u00eb, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht kur er\u00ebrat e ftohta t\u00eb sjella nga dyshimet dhe momentet e trishtueshme t\u00eb vijn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n
2.Mos kini frik\u00eb … Nga asgj\u00eb dhe nga askush. Ndiqni \u00ebndrrat tuaja, mos u dekurajoni nga v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb ose nga ato q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit mund t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb. Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz nuk b\u00ebjn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb duan dhe m\u00eb pas e kalojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre duke gjykuar se \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.
\n3.Shmangni pesimist\u00ebt acid\u00eb q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb me ‘n\u00ebse’ dhe ‘por’. 4.Mos u kusht\u00ebzoni. Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e keqe n\u00eb jet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh prapa dhe t\u00eb thuash: “Un\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kisha … Un\u00eb mund t\u00eb kisha”. Nd\u00ebrmerrni rreziqe, b\u00ebni gabime.<\/p>\n
5.T\u00eb gjitha qeniet njer\u00ebzore jan\u00eb t\u00eb barabarta. Disa njer\u00ebz mund t\u00eb mbajn\u00eb kapele ekstravagante ose t\u00eb ken\u00eb tituj t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyesh\u00ebm mbase (p\u00ebrkoh\u00ebsisht) t\u00eb ken\u00eb fuqi t\u00eb madhe dhe k\u00ebshtu t\u00eb besojn\u00eb se jan\u00eb superior\u00eb. Mos u besoni. Ata kan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat dyshime, t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat frik\u00ebra dhe t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat shpresa, han\u00eb, pin\u00eb, flen\u00eb si t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
6.B\u00ebni nj\u00eb list\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00e7kaje q\u00eb d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb b\u00ebni n\u00eb jet\u00eb: udh\u00ebtoni n\u00eb vende t\u00eb larg\u00ebta, m\u00ebsoni nj\u00eb zanat ose gjuh\u00eb, takoni dik\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. B\u00ebni disa nga k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra \u00e7do vit. 7.Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mos thuaj ‘Do ta b\u00ebj nes\u00ebr’. Nuk ka dit\u00eb ‘t\u00eb duhur’ p\u00ebr t\u00eb filluar di\u00e7ka, tani \u00ebsht\u00eb koha e duhur.<\/p>\n
8.Jini vet\u00ebmohues, dilni p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar njer\u00ebzit, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht m\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebtit, t\u00eb frik\u00ebsuarit dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Gjithkush mbart dhimbje t\u00eb madhe brenda tij dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dhembshuri.<\/p>\n
9.Mos u bashkoni me ushtrin\u00eb ose ndonj\u00eb organizat\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t’ju vras\u00eb. Lufta \u00ebsht\u00eb e keqe. T\u00eb gjitha luft\u00ebrat nis\u00ebn me burra t\u00eb moshuar q\u00eb i detyronin t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb t\u00eb urrenin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe t\u00eb vrisnin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.<\/p>\n
10.Lexoni libra, sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mundeni. Ata jan\u00eb nj\u00eb burim i mrekulluesh\u00ebm g\u00ebzimi, men\u00e7urie dhe frym\u00ebzimi.<\/p>\n
11.Jini t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb.<\/p>\n
12.Gjithmon\u00eb udh\u00ebtoni por sidomos gjat\u00eb rinis\u00eb tuaj. Mos prisni derisa t\u00eb keni para t\u00eb mjaftueshme ose derisa gjith\u00e7ka t\u00eb jet\u00eb e organizuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur. Kjo nuk do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n
13.Zgjidhni profesionin q\u00eb doni. Nj\u00eb pun\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb g\u00ebzim, mos puno vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr para, shpirti yt do t\u00eb paralizohet.<\/p>\n
14.Mos b\u00ebrtit. Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk ndihmon, d\u00ebmton veten dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Sa her\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebrtisja, d\u00ebshtoja.<\/p>\n
15.Gjithmon\u00eb mbajini premtimet q\u00eb u b\u00ebni f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Mos thuaj \u2018t\u00eb shohim’ kur do t\u00eb thuash ‘jo’. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt duan t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn. Tregojuni atyre t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn me dashuri dhe mir\u00ebsi.
\n16.Jetoni n\u00eb harmoni me natyr\u00ebn: q\u00ebndroni jasht\u00eb, n\u00eb pyje, n\u00eb male, buz\u00eb detit, n\u00eb shkret\u00ebtir\u00eb.
\n17.P\u00ebrqafoni njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb doni. Tregojuni sa t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm jan\u00eb p\u00ebr ju, mos prisni derisa t\u00eb jet\u00eb tep\u00ebr von\u00eb.
\n18.Jini mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs \u00e7do dit\u00eb p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb keni.
\nNga gjyshi.<\/p>\n
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Letra e gjyshit p\u00ebr nip\u00ebrit! T\u00eb dashur Ryan, Conor, Brendan, Charlie dhe Mary Catherine, Rasheli im m\u00eb shtyu t\u00eb shkruaj nj\u00eb let\u00ebr me disa k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr ju, n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn t’ju tregoj gj\u00ebrat e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb kam m\u00ebsuar gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Fillova ta shkruaj n\u00eb 8 Prill 2012, n\u00eb prag t\u00eb 72 vjetorit t\u00eb lindjes time. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":61491,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-61490","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-te-tjera"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61490","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61490"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61490\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":61493,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61490\/revisions\/61493"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/61491"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61490"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61490"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61490"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}