{"id":60864,"date":"2023-10-02T18:09:07","date_gmt":"2023-10-02T18:09:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/?p=60864"},"modified":"2023-10-02T18:09:07","modified_gmt":"2023-10-02T18:09:07","slug":"ai-qendroi-1-ore-nen-toke-burri-63-vjec-i-cili-u-varros-i-gjalle-flet-per-funeralin-e-tij","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/2023\/10\/02\/ai-qendroi-1-ore-nen-toke-burri-63-vjec-i-cili-u-varros-i-gjalle-flet-per-funeralin-e-tij\/","title":{"rendered":"Ai q\u00ebndroi 1 or\u00eb n\u00ebn tok\u00eb\/ Burri, 63 vje\u00e7, i cili u varros i gjall\u00eb flet p\u00ebr funeralin e tij"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nd\u00ebrsa Victor Amela ishte varrosur n\u00ebn tok\u00eb, ai ishte n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb d\u00ebgjonte lavd\u00ebrimet e mbushura me lot q\u00eb miqt\u00eb e tij kishin shkruar dhe lexonin p\u00ebr t\u00eb. <\/p>\n

Ai ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se pas varrimit \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjer\u00eb sikur \u201crilindi s\u00ebrish\u201d. <\/p>\n

V\u00edctor Amela, nj\u00eb shkrimtar 63-vje\u00e7ar spanjoll, mbajti funeralin e tij nd\u00ebrsa ishte ende gjall\u00eb. Amela g\u00ebrmoi nj\u00eb varr n\u00eb ferm\u00ebn e vendlindjes s\u00eb tij dhe kaloi nj\u00eb or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00ebn tok\u00eb. Kjo p\u00ebrpjekje e \u00e7uditshme, e cila p\u00ebrfshinte lavdi nga njer\u00ebzit e dashur dhe nj\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb drejtuar nga prifti, synonte ta ndihmonte at\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrballej me konceptin e vdekjes dhe, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb paradoksale, t\u00eb fitonte nj\u00eb vler\u00ebsim t\u00eb ri p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn. <\/p>\n

Udh\u00ebtimi i “mrekulluesh\u00ebm” i Amel\u00ebs filloi kur arkivoli mb\u00ebrriti n\u00eb pron\u00ebn e tij. M\u00eb pas, pasi hapi grop\u00ebn, ai nd\u00ebrmori hapin e pazakont\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbritur n\u00eb varrin q\u00eb kishte p\u00ebrgatitur dhe p\u00ebrjetoi at\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruhet vet\u00ebm si vdekja e tij simbolike.<\/p>\n

Victor Amela po p\u00ebrgatitet t\u00eb varroset. (Imazhi: Jam Press)<\/p>\n

P\u00ebr habin\u00eb e shum\u00eb t\u00eb pranishm\u00ebve, Amela u shpreh se p\u00ebrvoja ishte ndri\u00e7uese dhe gjall\u00ebruese. Duke folur p\u00ebr shfaqjen televizive spanjolle Horizonte, ai ndau mendimet e tij p\u00ebr aktin e pazakont\u00eb: “Miqt\u00eb e mi m\u00eb llastonin. Ishte e mrekullueshme dhe m\u00eb p\u00eblqeu pa mas\u00eb. Kur m\u00eb mbuluan dhe mbeta n\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00eb, d\u00ebgjova lopatat e dheut zbarkuan n\u00eb arkivol. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb sekond\u00eb, m\u00eb kapi paniku, por ai erdhi dhe u largua.<\/p>\n

M\u00eb pas fillova t\u00eb pushoj dhe ta shijoj at\u00eb. Doja t\u00eb mund t\u00eb q\u00ebndroja m\u00eb gjat\u00eb atje.” <\/p>\n

Gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs s\u00eb tij n\u00ebn tok\u00eb, Amela ishte n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb d\u00ebgjonte lavd\u00ebrimet e ofruara nga t\u00eb dashurit e tij, t\u00eb cilat ai i p\u00ebrshkroi si nj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb emocionale dhe prek\u00ebse. Ai vuri n\u00eb dukje se sinqeriteti i fjal\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre dhe lot\u00ebt q\u00eb derdh\u00ebn, e b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb ndihej m\u00eb i lidhur me ta. <\/p>\n

M\u00eb tej Amela u shpreh: \u201cM\u00eb pas linda s\u00ebrish. Doja t\u00eb vazhdoja t\u00eb jetoja edhe p\u00ebr 40 vite t\u00eb tjera\u201d. <\/p>\n

Rreth arkivolit u mblodh\u00ebn miqt\u00eb e Amel\u00ebs. (Imazhi: Jam Press) <\/p>\n

Amela kishte koh\u00eb q\u00eb mendonte p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb udh\u00ebtim unik. Ai zbuloi se interesimi i tij p\u00ebr vdekjen e tij filloi n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 15-vje\u00e7are, kur, nd\u00ebrsa luante me nj\u00eb tabel\u00eb Ouija, ai u k\u00ebrkoi shpirtrave t\u00eb tregonin mosh\u00ebn n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn do t\u00eb vdiste. P\u00ebrgjigja ishte 65. Amela tha: “P\u00ebr nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 15-vje\u00e7ar, 65 vjet ndihen si pavdek\u00ebsi; \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb larg.” Megjithat\u00eb, ky parashikim mbeti n\u00eb n\u00ebnvet\u00ebdijen e tij p\u00ebr vite me radh\u00eb. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 55-vje\u00e7are, kur ai diskutoi k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb me nj\u00eb regjisor, kujtesa u rishfaq dhe ai u k\u00ebshillua q\u00eb mund ta p\u00ebrmbushte profecin\u00eb, sepse i kishte l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb vend n\u00eb mendjen e tij. Kjo \u00e7oi n\u00eb vendimin e tij p\u00ebr t’u p\u00ebrballur me frik\u00ebn e tij n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb mjaft dramatike, duke organizuar funeralin e tij.<\/p>\n

Praktika jokonvencionale e varrosjes s\u00eb vetvetes t\u00eb gjall\u00eb dhe e mbajtjes s\u00eb nj\u00eb funerali nd\u00ebrsa \u00ebsht\u00eb ende gjall\u00eb, si\u00e7 demonstrohet nga Victor Amela, sfidon tabut\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore dhe normat kulturore per\u00ebndimore q\u00eb rrethojn\u00eb vdekjen. P\u00ebr disa, ky akt sh\u00ebrben si nj\u00eb kujtes\u00eb e ashp\u00ebr e p\u00ebrkohshm\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb jet\u00ebs dhe i inkurajon individ\u00ebt t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me vdekshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e tyre n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb unike dhe t\u00eb brendshme. Duke u zhytur n\u00eb funeralet e tyre, njer\u00ebz si Amela shpresojn\u00eb t\u00eb nxisin nj\u00eb vler\u00ebsim m\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb p\u00ebr vler\u00ebn e ekzistenc\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb forcojn\u00eb lidhjet e tyre me njer\u00ebzit e dashur. Nd\u00ebrsa kjo praktik\u00eb fiton njohje n\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb bot\u00ebs, ajo ngre pyetje q\u00eb t\u00eb ngjallin mendime rreth m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs se si ne lidhemi dhe e perceptojm\u00eb vet\u00eb vdekshm\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb.
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Nd\u00ebrsa Victor Amela ishte varrosur n\u00ebn tok\u00eb, ai ishte n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb d\u00ebgjonte lavd\u00ebrimet e mbushura me lot q\u00eb miqt\u00eb e tij kishin shkruar dhe lexonin p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Ai ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se pas varrimit \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjer\u00eb sikur \u201crilindi s\u00ebrish\u201d. V\u00edctor Amela, nj\u00eb shkrimtar 63-vje\u00e7ar spanjoll, mbajti funeralin e tij nd\u00ebrsa ishte ende gjall\u00eb. Amela g\u00ebrmoi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":60867,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-60864","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-te-tjera"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60864","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60864"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60864\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":60868,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60864\/revisions\/60868"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60867"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60864"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60864"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60864"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}