(Njoh njer\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb diplomuar n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 21 vje\u00e7are dhe nuk kan\u00eb gjetur nj\u00eb pun\u00eb, as kur kan\u00eb mbushur 27 vje\u00e7\u00eb. Njoh njer\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb diplomuar n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 25 vje\u00e7are dhe kan\u00eb gjetur pun\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Njoh njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb shkuar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb universitet, por e kan\u00eb kuptuar se \u00e7far\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 18 vje\u00e7are. Njoh edhe nga ata t\u00eb rinj q\u00eb kan\u00eb gjetur pun\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb sa mbyll\u00ebn studimet e universitetit dhe kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb para, por nuk e kan\u00eb p\u00eblqyer at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebnin.<\/p>\n
Disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb kan\u00eb kaluar vite me radh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se \u00e7far\u00eb p\u00eblqenin. Njoh edhe nga ata q\u00eb ishin t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebnin, kur ishin 16 vje\u00e7 dhe e ndryshuan mendjen, kur ishin 26 vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n
Ka nga ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por jan\u00eb beqar\u00eb dhe nga ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb martuar, por shpresojn\u00eb me vite t\u00eb t\u00ebra p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Ka nj\u00ebr\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me dik\u00eb, por duan dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Ka nga ata q\u00eb e duan nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, por nuk jan\u00eb bashk\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Pra, mendimi im \u00ebsht\u00eb se gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb jet\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur. Mund t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh drejt disa miqve t\u00eb tu dhe t\u00eb mendosh se ata jan\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb para teje (disa mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb edhe pas), por \u00e7do gj\u00eb ndodh sipas ritmit t\u00eb vet. Ata kan\u00eb koh\u00ebn e tyre, po ashtu si\u00e7 e ke edhe ti. Ji i duruar.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 25 vje\u00e7are, Mark Cuban u b\u00eb bankier n\u00eb Dallas. U desh\u00ebn vite q\u00eb J. K. Ro\u00ebling t\u00eb botonte serin\u00eb e librave t\u00eb Harry Potter, pasi u refuzua nga 12 sht\u00ebpi botuese. Ortega e lan\u00e7oi firm\u00ebn e njohur Zara n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 39 vje\u00e7are. Jack Ma e filloi Alibaba-n, kur ishte 35 vje\u00e7. Morgan Freeman b\u00ebri pushimin e tij m\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, kur ishte 52 vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb marr\u00ebsh diplom\u00ebn pas mosh\u00ebs 25 vje\u00e7are \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb arritje. T\u00eb mos jesh i martuar n\u00eb t\u00eb 30-tat, por t\u00eb jesh i lumtur, \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00eb e bukur. T\u00eb nis\u00ebsh nj\u00eb familje pas mosh\u00ebs 35 vje\u00e7are \u00ebsht\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht e mundur dhe t\u00eb blesh nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, kur t\u00eb jesh 40 vje\u00e7, \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00eb e mrekullueshme.<\/p>\n
Mos e lejo ask\u00ebnd t\u00eb t\u00eb nxis\u00eb t\u00eb ec\u00ebsh me koh\u00ebn e tyre, sepse ashtu si\u00e7 ka th\u00ebn\u00eb Ajnshtajni: \u201cJo \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ka vler\u00eb, mund t\u00eb num\u00ebrohet dhe jo \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb num\u00ebrohet, ka vler\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n
Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Un\u00eb dua q\u00eb secili nga ju t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb me objektiva dhe q\u00ebllime t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrdor\u00eb objektivat dhe q\u00ebllimet e veta p\u00ebr t\u00eb sjell\u00eb nj\u00eb ndryshim n\u00eb jet\u00ebt e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Ky do t\u00eb jet\u00eb suksesi i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb i gjithsecilit nga ju\u201d. ) <\/p>\n
* Kush \u00ebsht\u00eb Jay Shetty ?<\/p>\n
Jay Shetty, superylli i mediave sociale dhe drejtuesi i podcast-it num\u00ebr 1 On Purpose, distilon urt\u00ebsin\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetshme q\u00eb m\u00ebsoi si murg n\u00eb hapa praktik\u00eb q\u00eb \u00e7dokush mund t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmarr\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb pak t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar dhe m\u00eb kuptimplot\u00eb. Kur mendoni si murg, do t\u00eb kuptoni: -Si t\u00eb kap\u00ebrcejm\u00eb negativitetin -Si t\u00eb ndalojm\u00eb t\u00eb menduarit e tep\u00ebrt -Pse krahasimi e vret dashurin\u00eb -Si ta p\u00ebrdorni frik\u00ebn tuaj -Pse nuk mund ta gjesh lumturin\u00eb duke e k\u00ebrkuar -Si t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh nga kushdo q\u00eb takon -Pse nuk jeni mendimet tuaja -Si ta gjeni q\u00ebllimin tuaj -Pse mir\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb vendimtare p\u00ebr suksesin -Edhe me shume… Shetty u rrit n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje ku mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh nj\u00eb nga tre gj\u00ebrat – nj\u00eb mjek, nj\u00eb avokat ose nj\u00eb d\u00ebshtim. Familja e tij ishte e bindur se ai kishte zgjedhur opsionin tre: n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb merrte pjes\u00eb n\u00eb ceremonin\u00eb e diplomimit t\u00eb kolegjit, ai u nis p\u00ebr n\u00eb Indi p\u00ebr t’u b\u00ebr\u00eb murg, p\u00ebr t\u00eb medituar \u00e7do dit\u00eb p\u00ebr kat\u00ebr deri n\u00eb tet\u00eb or\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t’ia kushtuar jet\u00ebn e tij ndihm\u00ebs s\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Pas tre vjet\u00ebsh, nj\u00eb nga m\u00ebsuesit e tij i tha se do t\u00eb kishte m\u00eb shum\u00eb ndikim n\u00eb bot\u00eb n\u00ebse do t\u00eb linte rrug\u00ebn e murgut p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndar\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn dhe men\u00e7urin\u00eb e tij me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. I zhytur r\u00ebnd\u00eb n\u00eb borxhe dhe pa aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb njohura n\u00eb rezymen\u00eb e tij, ai u kthye n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi n\u00eb veri t\u00eb Londr\u00ebs me prind\u00ebrit e tij.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
(Njoh njer\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb diplomuar n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 21 vje\u00e7are dhe nuk kan\u00eb gjetur nj\u00eb pun\u00eb, as kur kan\u00eb mbushur 27 vje\u00e7\u00eb. Njoh njer\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb diplomuar n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 25 vje\u00e7are dhe kan\u00eb gjetur pun\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb. Njoh njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb shkuar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb universitet, por e kan\u00eb kuptuar se \u00e7far\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 18 vje\u00e7are. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":54695,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-54694","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-te-tjera"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54694","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=54694"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54694\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":54696,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54694\/revisions\/54696"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/54695"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54694"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54694"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=54694"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}