Gj\u00ebra t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb mbani mend kur jeni t\u00eb martuar ose n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje serioze: Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mos supozoni se partneri juaj ndihet i dashuruar. Net\u00ebt e takimeve jan\u00eb nj\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebri. Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00ebse dilni ose q\u00ebndroni brenda. \u00cbsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb flisni hapur p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb ndryshoni n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj. M\u00ebsoni gjuh\u00ebn e dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb nuk e perceptojm\u00eb dashurin\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Shkoni n\u00eb shtrat i \u00e7mendur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. Mos detyroni nj\u00eb zgjidhje. Fjetja n\u00eb t\u00eb ndihmon. Kur hyni n\u00eb nj\u00eb grindje, mos thoni thjesht “M\u00eb fal”. Thuaj p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb vjen keq dhe si do t\u00eb reagosh ndryshe her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet e m\u00ebrzitshme. \u00c7do \u00e7ift kalon n\u00eb faz\u00ebn e “t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitshme”. Eshte normale. Do t\u00eb zbehet. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb koha n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn do t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje. Disa dit\u00eb do t’ju duhet t\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqni m\u00eb shum\u00eb pesh\u00eb se partneri juaj dhe anasjelltas. \u00cbsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb kontrolloni sh\u00ebndetin mendor t\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. \u00cbsht\u00eb n\u00eb rregull t\u00eb shkosh n\u00eb k\u00ebshillimin e \u00e7ifteve. Te ndihmon. Kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju t\u00eb dy po p\u00ebrfundoni ose po d\u00ebshtoni. Flisni p\u00ebr para. Flisni p\u00ebr q\u00ebllimet tuaja financiare. L\u00ebreni partnerin tuaj t\u00eb dij\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb prisni prej tyre dhe anasjelltas. Fikni telefonat nj\u00eb or\u00eb para gjumit dhe thjesht flisni me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. B\u00ebni pyetje si “\u00c7far\u00eb keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb shihni m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga un\u00eb?” “Si mund ta kuptojm\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin m\u00eb mir\u00eb?” Dhe m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja, jini t\u00eb sjellsh\u00ebm me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Duajeni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Luftoni p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Mbani mend, dashuria nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kurr\u00eb e leht\u00eb dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim i d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar. Por dreqin, a \u00ebsht\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb e bukur dhe ia vlen. <\/p>\n
SH\u00cbNDETI MENDOR \u00cbSHT\u00cb I R\u00cbND\u00cbSISH\u00cbM N\u00cb T\u00cb GJITHA ASPEKTET.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Gj\u00ebra t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb mbani mend kur jeni t\u00eb martuar ose n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje serioze: Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mos supozoni se partneri juaj ndihet i dashuruar. Net\u00ebt e takimeve jan\u00eb nj\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebri. Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00ebse dilni ose q\u00ebndroni brenda. \u00cbsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb flisni hapur p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb ndryshoni n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":49097,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-49096","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-te-tjera"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49096","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=49096"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49096\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=49096"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=49096"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=49096"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}