N\u00eb t\u00eb shpesht\u00eb, t\u00eb qenit i suksessh\u00ebm nuk t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihesh i till\u00eb. Shumica e njer\u00ebzve, flasin p\u00ebr q\u00ebllime, p\u00ebr fam\u00eb, p\u00ebr arritje, p\u00ebr karrier\u00eb. A p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto suksesin? <\/p>\n
N\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb, po dhe p\u00ebrtej, ka dy koncepte thell\u00ebsisht t\u00eb ngjashme e po aq thell\u00ebsisht t\u00eb ndryshme: arritjet dhe suksesi. T\u00eb arrish q\u00ebllime nuk t\u00eb b\u00ebn patjet\u00ebr t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm. <\/p>\n
Arritjet jan\u00eb q\u00ebllime dhe objektiva q\u00eb ne i vendosim vetes. I planifikojm\u00eb, punojm\u00eb p\u00ebr to, hartojm\u00eb nj\u00eb plan p\u00ebr to.
\nArritjet jan\u00eb t\u00eb prekshme, t\u00eb matshme, t\u00eb shpjegueshme qart\u00ebsisht n\u00eb fjal\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Suksesi, n\u00eb ndryshim nga arritjet, \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjesi.
\nSuksesi \u00ebsht\u00eb gjendje, \u00ebsht\u00eb i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u shpjeguar me fjal\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb i papreksh\u00ebm, v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsish i matsh\u00ebm. <\/p>\n
N\u00ebse p\u00ebr arritjet \u00ebsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb t\u00eb hartojm\u00eb nj\u00eb plan me pika konkrete se \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019ja dal, p\u00ebr suksesin nuk mundemi. Suksesi \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjesi, si i till\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb projektohet n\u00eb plane me pika t\u00eb shkruara. <\/p>\n
Ekziston nj\u00eb supozim se sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb arrish, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb do t\u00eb ndihesh i suksessh\u00ebm. N\u00eb fakt, kjo ndodh rrall\u00eb, shum\u00eb rrall\u00eb.
\nKjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie var\u00ebsie, ku rritja e te par\u00ebs sjell t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn efekt n\u00eb t\u00eb dyt\u00ebn.
\nMegjithat\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb as marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie p\u00ebrjashtuese, t\u00eb dyja i duhen nj\u00ebra -tjetr\u00ebs. Aq sa q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb n\u00eb paralel, aq edhe nd\u00ebrthuren. <\/p>\n
Suksesi \u00ebsht\u00eb po kaq abstrakt sa duket nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb po p\u00ebrpiqem ta shpjegoj. Situata aktuale e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb son\u00eb, e b\u00ebn\u00eb edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb perceptimin se \u00e7 \u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb suksesi. Ne sot jemi nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri e dukjes, ekraneve, fotove dhe mediave sociale. <\/p>\n
\u00c7do pranver\u00eb, n\u00eb Institutionin e Teknologjis\u00eb n\u00eb Massachusetts, organizohet nj\u00eb event 4 ditor mes sip\u00ebrmarr\u00ebsve m\u00eb t\u00eb arrir\u00eb. Ke degjuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb? Jo. As un\u00eb nuk kisha d\u00ebgjuar deri para disa jav\u00ebsh. E di pse? Sepse p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb organizim nuk ka faqe n\u00eb rrjete sociale, nuk ka fotograf, nuk th\u00ebrriten autoritete qeveritare p\u00ebr fjal\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndet\u00ebse, nuk thirren televizione, nuk jepen intervista. Ky organizim, ka n\u00eb baz\u00eb vler\u00ebn, eksperienc\u00ebn. Ata, m\u00eb t\u00eb arrir\u00ebt n\u00eb syt\u00eb e shum\u00ebkujt, ndajn\u00eb mes tyre \u00e7far\u00eb jan\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsojn\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Ata e quajn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb takim “Gathering of Titans”. N\u00eb at\u00eb organizim, nuk ka sesione relaksi ku luhet ping-pong, nuk ka as shefa kuzhine t\u00eb thirrur posa\u00e7\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr ta. Ai organizim, ka di\u00e7ka ndryshe nga \u00e7far\u00eb na ofrohet e \u00e7far\u00eb jemi m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb shohim sot n\u00eb vij\u00ebn e par\u00eb, ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb bosh. <\/p>\n
Th\u00ebn\u00eb sa m\u00eb lart, e b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb perceptimin se \u00e7 \u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb suksesi. <\/p>\n
Suksesi \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjesi, suksesi mish\u00ebrohet n\u00eb at\u00eb ndjesi me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn zgjohemi \u00e7do m\u00ebngjes, e cila na b\u00ebn t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs. Pik\u00ebrisht ajo q\u00eb i thua vetes kur hap syt\u00eb, pik\u00ebrisht ajo q\u00eb i thua vetes kur nuk do t\u00eb heq\u00ebsh dor\u00eb, ajo sjell suksesin.
\n…por, ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb plan, \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrtej nj\u00eb plani, \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb na b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm dhe \u00e7far\u00eb na destinon t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi kush jemi. <\/p>\n
A mundeni t\u00eb thoni tani, jeni apo ndiheni t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm? :<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
N\u00eb t\u00eb shpesht\u00eb, t\u00eb qenit i suksessh\u00ebm nuk t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihesh i till\u00eb. Shumica e njer\u00ebzve, flasin p\u00ebr q\u00ebllime, p\u00ebr fam\u00eb, p\u00ebr arritje, p\u00ebr karrier\u00eb. A p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto suksesin? N\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb, po dhe p\u00ebrtej, ka dy koncepte thell\u00ebsisht t\u00eb ngjashme e po aq thell\u00ebsisht t\u00eb ndryshme: arritjet dhe suksesi. T\u00eb arrish […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":29630,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-29629","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-opinione"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29629","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29629"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29629\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29631,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29629\/revisions\/29631"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29630"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29629"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29629"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29629"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}