Q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret aft\u00ebsia krijuese, apo nj\u00eb prirje p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse, do duhet t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb q\u00ebllimi, sa m\u00eb i kristalizuar.
\nP\u00ebrse dhe \u00e7far\u00eb d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb arrini? Do t\u00eb pasurohesh? T\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsosh jet\u00ebn, familjen? N\u00eb \u00e7\u2019m\u00ebnyr\u00eb?
\nPastaj, n\u00eb njohje t\u00eb aft\u00ebsive, n\u00eb proces jete, zgjedh midis tyre.
\nQ\u00ebllimi gjendet pasi meditoni p\u00ebr veten, at\u00eb q\u00eb duket dhe at\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019duket.
\nJu vet, i vendosni q\u00ebllimet n\u00eb rregull sipas r\u00ebnd\u00ebsis\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebr ju: i pari, i dyti, e me radh\u00eb. Ose vendosni m\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebtat, s\u00eb pari, dhe p\u00ebr inerci jete vet-vendosen t\u00eb af\u00ebrtat, ose e kund\u00ebrta. Jeni ju q\u00eb vendosni \u00e7far\u00eb doni t\u00eb b\u00ebni me fuqin\u00eb tuaj Krijuese.
\nE b\u00ebni k\u00ebt\u00eb duke kontrolluar veten n\u00eb \u00e7do \u00e7ast: n\u00eb momentin Tani. Jo n\u00eb dit\u00ebn Dje. Jo n\u00eb at\u00eb Nes\u00ebr.
\nNjohuria q\u00eb keni p\u00ebr Dje \u00ebsht\u00eb relative, ajo p\u00ebr nes\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb e vagullt. Jetoni, punoni, krijoni n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb, tani. Thellojeni pra dijen, duke studiuar t\u00eb tashmen. Vet\u00ebm kjo sjell p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi n\u00eb kapacitet dhe cil\u00ebsi.
\n\u201cTani\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb sekreti i jet\u00ebs ku jemi. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb e b\u00ebn nj\u00eb Mjesht\u00ebr t\u00eb dalloj\u00eb nga dikush q\u00eb nuk i ka njohurit\u00eb p\u00ebr momentin e koh\u00ebs \u201cTani\u201d, p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, at\u00eb q\u00eb rrjedh n\u00eb moment t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb.
\nMos shihni atje jasht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur veten apo veten tjet\u00ebr, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e meditimit t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme individualisht. Meditoni n\u00eb koh\u00ebn \u201ctani\u201d, p\u00ebrqendrohuni n\u00eb \u201ctani\u201d, vendosini q\u00ebllimet q\u00eb keni t\u2019ju sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb juve n\u00eb koh\u00ebn aktuale, b\u00ebjeni planin e dit\u00ebs t\u2019iu p\u00ebrgjigjet k\u00ebtyre nevojave q\u00eb keni \u201ctani\u201d.
\nT\u00eb m\u00ebsosh si t\u00eb shprehesh \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb prej p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsive ndaj vetes.
\nShqisat jan\u00eb, i ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb Zoti, ato m\u00ebsohen p\u00ebrmes \u201cnx\u00ebnies\u201d, si\u00e7 m\u00ebsohet nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, edukuar gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Nj\u00eb \u201cvete\u201d q\u00eb s\u2019ka ardhur n\u00eb pik\u00ebn e funksionit si nj\u00eb e plot\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb p\u00ebrmes pafund\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb bot\u00ebs ku \u00ebsht\u00eb. Duhet m\u00ebsuar si t\u00eb aplikohet \u00e7do dit\u00eb t\u00eb shkruash, flas\u00ebsh, ndar\u00eb mendimet q\u00eb ke me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt pa lejuar frik\u00ebn t\u00eb pengoj\u00eb, se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt do mund t\u00eb gjykojn\u00eb. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr kur flet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb bot\u00eb t\u00eb padukshme, fshehur nga shqisat, shum\u00eb do t\u00eb paragjykonin se jeton n\u00eb bot\u00eb fantazie. Megjithat\u00eb, duhet guxuar.
\nT\u00eb reflektuarit \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e mrekullueshme si shpenzohet ndjesia n\u00eb t\u00eb shkruarin e dit\u00ebs q\u00eb jetohet. Ndodhin mrekulli brenda vetes, kur kjo b\u00ebhet m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb jetuari. N\u00eb reflektim e arsyetim jan\u00eb gjith\u00eb mund\u00ebsit\u00eb t\u00eb biesh n\u00eb rrjet\u00ebn e t\u00eb vet\u00eb-gjykuarit, t\u00eb kritikave, keqardhjeve, ndjesis\u00eb s\u00eb fajit, etj.
\nNdihmon t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh nga k\u00ebto ndjesi negative- kur meditimi ndodh n\u00eb \u201chap\u00ebsir\u00ebn\u201d midis dy koh\u00ebve, pra f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb dikurshme dhe mosh\u00ebs q\u00eb je tani. K\u00ebto dy pika skajesh, kan\u00eb nj\u00eb lum\u00eb pikash – koordinata n\u00eb koh\u00eb brenda t\u00eb cilave gjendesh. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vij\u00eb-p\u00ebrqasje, s\u2019mbetet asnj\u00eb milimet\u00ebr vend p\u00ebr keqardhje, p\u00ebrkundrazi.
\nN\u00eb nj\u00eb mendje p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht t\u00eb predispozuar t\u00eb mos k\u00ebnaqet ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb me veten, keqardhja shkakton edhe d\u00ebm. Disa objektiva personale mund t\u00eb mos arrihen asnj\u00ebher\u00eb. S\u2019jemi personalisht fajtor\u00eb, n\u00ebse e pranojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb.
\nZhvillimi ka nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon koh\u00ebn e vet t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb\u2026
\nKoh\u00eb-jeta nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb sistem i vet njeriut.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret aft\u00ebsia krijuese, apo nj\u00eb prirje p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse, do duhet t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb q\u00ebllimi, sa m\u00eb i kristalizuar. P\u00ebrse dhe \u00e7far\u00eb d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb arrini? Do t\u00eb pasurohesh? T\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsosh jet\u00ebn, familjen? N\u00eb \u00e7\u2019m\u00ebnyr\u00eb? Pastaj, n\u00eb njohje t\u00eb aft\u00ebsive, n\u00eb proces jete, zgjedh midis tyre. Q\u00ebllimi gjendet pasi meditoni p\u00ebr veten, at\u00eb q\u00eb duket dhe at\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":24408,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[120],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-24407","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-letersi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24407","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24407"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24407\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24409,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24407\/revisions\/24409"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24408"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24407"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24407"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24407"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}