{"id":21599,"date":"2022-09-30T08:34:28","date_gmt":"2022-09-30T08:34:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/?p=21599"},"modified":"2022-09-30T08:34:28","modified_gmt":"2022-09-30T08:34:28","slug":"dhuna-sksuale-ti-je-e-abuzuar-del-studimi-per-dhunen-sksuale-ne-sportet-gjermane","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/2022\/09\/30\/dhuna-sksuale-ti-je-e-abuzuar-del-studimi-per-dhunen-sksuale-ne-sportet-gjermane\/","title":{"rendered":"Dhuna S*ksuale\/&#8221;Ti je e abuzuar&#8221; &#8211; Del studimi p\u00ebr dhun\u00ebn s*ksuale n\u00eb sportet gjermane"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>72 sportiste dhe sportist\u00eb t\u00eb prekur raportojn\u00eb p\u00ebr dhun\u00ebn seksuale q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar si t\u00eb mitur n\u00eb klubet sportive gjermane<\/p>\n<p>13 vje\u00e7e ishte Tina, kur trajneri p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb e shtyu te muri i pishin\u00ebs, duke u f\u00ebrkuar me t\u00eb.\u00a0 Por terreni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb veprim, q\u00eb Tin\u00ebs iu duk &#8220;normal\u201d ishte p\u00ebrgatitur qysh m\u00eb par\u00eb. Me nj\u00eb dhun\u00eb psikike dhe emocionale q\u00eb ndodhte hapur, dhe askush nuk reagonte.<br \/>\nParap\u00ebrgatitje me dhun\u00eb emocionale<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Kush vinte me vones\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebnte 50 pompa d\u00ebnim, ose pas st\u00ebrvitjes t&#8217;i vendoste t\u00eb gjitha veglat n\u00eb vend brenda nj\u00eb kohe shum\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr, p\u00ebrndryshe trajneri do t&#8217;i rr\u00ebzonte\u00a0 dhe ti duhej t&#8217;i vije t\u00ebra nga e para\u201d, thot\u00eb Tina. Pushteti i trajnerit t\u00eb ri e t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm t\u00eb gjimnastik\u00ebs ishte i padiskutuesh\u00ebm. Dhe askush nuk guxonte t\u00eb thoshte di\u00e7ka as edhe kur ai i p\u00ebrgatiste vajzat fillimisht verbalisht p\u00ebr sh\u00ebrbimet ndaj tij; B\u00ebnte kategorizime vithesh dhe gjinjsh ose p\u00ebrdorte nj\u00eb gjuh\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme aq t\u00eb seksualizuar saq\u00eb p\u00ebr vajzat ishte normale dhe n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre di\u00e7ka &#8220;cool\u201d\u00a0 q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqeheshin ose adhuroheshin seksualisht nga trajneri i tyre.<\/p>\n<p>Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale e Tin\u00ebs me trajnerin vijoi deri n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 17-vje\u00e7are. Vet\u00ebm \u00a0tre vjet m\u00eb von\u00eb, kur Tina shkoi t\u00eb studionte n\u00eb nj\u00eb qytet tjet\u00ebr, iu b\u00eb e qart\u00eb se kjo marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie kishte qen\u00eb abuzim dhe jo akt i vullnetit t\u00eb lir\u00eb, si\u00e7 kishte kujtuar ajo.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKur isha 20 vje\u00e7e i tregova p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb shokut tim p\u00ebr \u201cmarr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien\u201d \u00a0me trajnerin. Dhe ai m\u00eb tha: Ti je e abuzuar! Sepse trajneri ka kryer marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me nj\u00eb person n\u00ebn kujdestari. Dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vep\u00ebr penale.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>72 rr\u00ebfime trondit\u00ebse<\/p>\n<p>Rasti i Tin\u00ebs nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i vetmi. P\u00ebrkundrazi, nj\u00eb studim i prezantuar t\u00eb mart\u00ebn n\u00eb Berlin, jep shifra shqet\u00ebsuese. N\u00eb maj t\u00eb vitit 2019 , nj\u00eb komision i pavarur i ngarkuar nga Parlamenti Gjerman, u b\u00ebri thirrje t\u00eb prekurave ose t\u00eb prekurve q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruanin p\u00ebrvojat e tyre me abuzimin seksual n\u00eb sport. 72 sportiste rr\u00ebfejn\u00eb aty p\u00ebr p\u00ebrvojat e tyre. Dy t\u00eb tretat jan\u00eb abuzuar seksualisht n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebritur ose rregullisht.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Bettina Rulofs, nj\u00eb nga autoret e studimit dhe sociologen\u00eb Shkoll\u00ebn e lart\u00eb t\u00eb Gjermane t\u00eb Sportit n\u00eb Koeln, thot\u00eb se &#8220;b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr ngacmime fizike seksuale dhe p\u00ebrdhunime nga ana e t\u00eb rriturve kundrejt f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe t\u00eb rinjve n\u00eb sport, n\u00eb kushte kujdestarie ose var\u00ebsie. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 dhun\u00ebs seksuale b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr dhun\u00eb psikike, dhun\u00eb fizike, rrahje, shkelma, dhun\u00eb emocionale. Tre\u00e7ereku i t\u00eb prekurve jan\u00eb gra.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Klube t\u00eb heshtura<\/p>\n<p>Abuzuesit jan\u00eb shumica burra, trajner\u00ebt, kujdestar\u00ebt ose m\u00ebsuesit n\u00eb sportet e organizuara. Autoret mendojn\u00eb se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm maja e ajsbergut.\u00a0 Problemi\u00a0 \u00ebsht\u00eb se n\u00eb Klubet Sportive sundon heshtja. T\u00eb prekurve zakonisht nuk u vihet veshi, por p\u00ebrkundrazi, ato shantazhohen me akuza p\u00ebr shpifje.\u00a0 Kjo sepse shumica e t\u00eb dhunuesve kan\u00eb qen\u00eb\u00a0trajner\u00ebt, q\u00eb g\u00ebzojn\u00eb nj\u00eb reputacion shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb klube ose edhe\u00a0n\u00eb rrethin familjar. Fenomeni \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i p\u00ebrhapur n\u00eb nivelet profesioniste ose q\u00eb marrin pjes\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr kampionate, dhe m\u00eb pak n\u00eb sportet q\u00eb b\u00ebhen p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar koh\u00ebn ose n\u00eb shkolla.\u00a0Sportet m\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0 prekura jan\u00eb gjimnastika dhe futbolli.<\/p>\n<p>Sipas studimet, n\u00eb sport shum\u00eb rrall\u00eb zbardhen dhe trajtohen rastet e dhun\u00ebs s\u00eb seksualizuar ose abuzimeve seksuale.\u00a0 j\u00eb nism\u00eb pozitive \u00ebsht\u00eb nisma Safe Sport, e Shoqat\u00ebs s\u00eb Atlet\u00ebve n\u00eb Gjermani, nj\u00eb zyr\u00eb kjo, q\u00eb d\u00ebgjon dhe ndihmon t\u00eb prekurit.<\/p>\n<p>Angela Marquardt, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00eb e prekur, por si politikane socialdemokrate an\u00ebtare e komisionit t\u00eb trajtimit t\u00eb abuzimeve, kritikon faktin q\u00eb Shoqata e Sporteve Olimpike t\u00eb Gjermanis\u00eb nuk pranon t\u00eb jap\u00eb para p\u00ebr financime t\u00eb tilla.\u00a0&#8220;Ne nuk duhet ta pranojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb aq leht\u00eb\u201d, tha ajo.<\/p>\n<p>Sporti n\u00eb Gjermani ka nj\u00eb imazh shum\u00eb\u00a0t\u00eb\u00a0 lart\u00eb.\u00a0Prandaj edhe klubet sportive vler\u00ebsohen shum\u00eb nga shoq\u00ebria p\u00ebr efektin edukues q\u00eb kan\u00eb. \u00c7tabuizimi i k\u00ebsaj teme do ta prishte k\u00ebt\u00eb narrativ\u00eb p\u00ebr sportin, thot\u00eb Rolof, prandaj edhe shum\u00eb klube nuk merren fare me k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje.<\/p>\n<p>Shembulli i Tin\u00ebs e konfirmon k\u00ebt\u00eb. Tina ishte nga t\u00eb parat q\u00eb e denoncoi trajnerin e saj dhe vuri n\u00eb bank\u00ebn e t\u00eb akuzuarve, padis\u00eb s\u00eb saj iu bashkuan shum\u00eb shoqe t\u00eb at\u00ebhershme t\u00eb klubit.\u00a0Trajneri u d\u00ebnua me burg, por p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb disa gabime proceduriale vendimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ende n\u00eb fuqi. Klubit sportiv, iu desh\u00ebn gjasht\u00eb vjet, q\u00eb nga padia, p\u00ebr t\u00eb\u00a0k\u00ebrkuar falje publike ndaj ish-sportisteve t\u00eb d\u00ebmtuara.DW<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/4D683EB2-6E06-4044-A214-E0FA10E80F7C-300x213.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"213\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-21600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/4D683EB2-6E06-4044-A214-E0FA10E80F7C-300x213.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/4D683EB2-6E06-4044-A214-E0FA10E80F7C-1024x728.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/4D683EB2-6E06-4044-A214-E0FA10E80F7C-768x546.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/4D683EB2-6E06-4044-A214-E0FA10E80F7C-860x611.jpeg 860w, https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/4D683EB2-6E06-4044-A214-E0FA10E80F7C.jpeg 1079w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/564E1DDB-3469-4564-99E7-9C79E7239355-300x222.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"222\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-21601\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/564E1DDB-3469-4564-99E7-9C79E7239355-300x222.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/564E1DDB-3469-4564-99E7-9C79E7239355-1024x757.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/564E1DDB-3469-4564-99E7-9C79E7239355-768x567.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/564E1DDB-3469-4564-99E7-9C79E7239355-860x635.jpeg 860w, https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/564E1DDB-3469-4564-99E7-9C79E7239355.jpeg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>72 sportiste dhe sportist\u00eb t\u00eb prekur raportojn\u00eb p\u00ebr dhun\u00ebn seksuale q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar si t\u00eb mitur n\u00eb klubet sportive gjermane 13 vje\u00e7e ishte Tina, kur trajneri p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb e shtyu te muri i pishin\u00ebs, duke u f\u00ebrkuar me t\u00eb.\u00a0 Por terreni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb veprim, q\u00eb Tin\u00ebs iu duk &#8220;normal\u201d ishte p\u00ebrgatitur qysh m\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":21602,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-21599","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-bota"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21599","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21599"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21599\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21603,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21599\/revisions\/21603"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21602"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21599"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21599"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21599"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}