Martesa e tyre e ka prekur p\u00ebrvjetorin e argjendt\u00eb. Pavar\u00ebsisht viteve dhe rrug\u00ebs n\u00ebp\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn kan\u00eb shkelur, asgj\u00eb nuk e ka zbehur pasionin, dashurin\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb i ka lidhur n\u00eb dy.
\nNdihen me fat.
\nT\u00eb sjell\u00ebsh n\u00eb v\u00ebmendje sa hap e mbyll syt\u00eb,gjith\u00e7ka ka ndodhur me jet\u00ebn e tyre,\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj frym\u00ebmarrje q\u00eb iu b\u00ebn mir\u00eb. E me nj\u00eb ngacmim spontan, gjith\u00e7ka rrjedh lirsh\u00ebm e me emocion.
\n\u201cV\u00ebrtet, sa shpejt ka kaluar?!\u201d, \u2013 m\u00eb thot\u00eb Murati.
\n\u201cNj\u00eb jet\u00eb sa nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, sa nj\u00eb \u00e7ast, sa nj\u00eb puthje. Njohje, dashuri, martes\u00eb, pse jo edhe nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb, edhe pse druaj ta them, sepse lumturia rrezikon t\u00eb sjell\u00eb dhimbjen. Mbi gjith\u00e7ka dashuria. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb emocion, miq\u00ebsi. Kam besuar gjithmon\u00eb se jeta duhet jetuar me emocion. Mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb q\u00eb disa momente,dit\u00eb, jav\u00eb,t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb jetosh gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn. Kjo na ka mund\u00ebsuar t\u00eb mbajm\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb familjen p\u00ebrball\u00eb \u00e7do ndryshimi, v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsie apo pengese, por do ritheksoj se dashuria nuk njeh penges\u00eb. Pasioni t\u00eb mban gjall\u00eb, pasioni i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ndjenja, ajo e pakuptueshmja, q\u00eb t\u00eb shtyn t\u00eb b\u00ebsh \u00e7mendurira. Pasionet shuhen ngadal\u00eb dhe vdesin bashk\u00eb me ne\u201d. <\/p>\n
Toleranca e b\u00ebn t\u00eb fort\u00eb dashurin\u00eb <\/p>\n
Dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb, pasion dhe mir\u00ebkuptim. Edhe toleranca n\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimin e tij, vjen vetiu, si pasoj\u00eb e besimit dhe respektit reciprok. \u201cKjo e b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb nj\u00eb dashuri, i jep jet\u00eb dhe ndoshta p\u00ebrjet\u00ebsi, \u2013 shprehet Murati. \u2013 Fjal\u00ebt e dashuris\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjta, por marrin shije t\u00eb ndryshme nga buz\u00ebt prej t\u00eb cilave dalin. T\u00eb kund\u00ebrtat ekzistojn\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb magjia e dashuris\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ngjizen dy trupa n\u00eb nj\u00eb shpirt. Kur rrahjet e zemr\u00ebs kalojn\u00eb \u00e7do penges\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb dashuria triumfon. Sepse q\u00ebndresa ndaj tundimit \u00ebsht\u00eb mat\u00ebsi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr karakterin e njeriut. Ndoshta jeta vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb mund t\u00eb dhuroj\u00eb shum\u00eb, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb madhe, t\u00eb parealizueshme n\u00eb dukje, q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb ai ose ajo, sot me ty.
\nNj\u00eb, t\u00eb pandar\u00eb.
\nF\u00ebmij\u00ebve u kemi th\u00ebn\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb: Dashuroni, po, po, dashuroni v\u00ebrtet, fort, me pasion, ndershm\u00ebrisht.
\nNj\u00eb dashuri edhe mund \u2018t\u00eb vdes\u00eb\u2019, por \u00ebsht\u00eb budallall\u00ebk, madje m\u00ebkat,t\u00eb mos e l\u00ebsh t\u00eb lind\u00eb nga frika se do \u2018vdes\u00eb\u2019.
\nDo t\u00eb ishim t\u00eb lumtur sikur edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb,t\u00eb gjenin dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb duheshin me pasion. M\u00eb emocionon ky fakt se ata do ishin t\u00eb lumtur. Dasht\u00eb Zoti p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn! Por edhe disa \u00e7aste lumturie t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ia vlejn\u00eb\u201d. <\/p>\n
Puthja, dhurata m\u00eb e bukur <\/p>\n
T\u00eb ndjesh \u00e7do rrahje zemre t\u00eb partnerit\/s,\u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb,me padurim t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh rikthimin edhe kur sapo jeni larguar. Nj\u00eb puthje p\u00ebr \u00e7do rast do t\u00eb ishte dhurata m\u00eb e bukur.
\nNj\u00eb puthje n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes \u00ebsht\u00eb sa mij\u00ebra fjal\u00eb, nj\u00eb gjest, nj\u00eb shikim dhe fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb hapin qiellin. Ky ose kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb partneri\/ja e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Ka \u00e7aste t\u00eb zymta,ndoshta n\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebn e saj, por forca e dashuris\u00eb, lufta n\u00eb dy,t\u00eb ndihmon t\u00eb kalosh edhe momentet m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira. Edhe kur je i varf\u00ebr mund t\u00eb b\u00ebsh dhuratat m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura, jo materiale, por shpirt\u00ebrore. Ne e kemi provuar dhe funksionon. Kemi kaluar momente q\u00eb nuk besonim se mund t\u2019i p\u00ebrjetonim, kemi jetuar dhimbje q\u00eb mendonim se do t\u00eb na vrisnin, sidomos un\u00eb, kemi pyetur dhe lutur me kok\u00ebn lart\u2026
\nPor jemi k\u00ebtu fal\u00eb forc\u00ebs s\u00eb dashuris\u00eb dhe ndihm\u00ebs s\u00eb Zotit.
\nN\u00ebse e ndan zemr\u00ebn n\u00eb pjes\u00eb dhe pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe ia dhuron partnerit\/s, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb fantastike. E jona ka qen\u00eb dhimbje,q\u00eb mbijetoi fal\u00eb forc\u00ebs s\u00eb dashuris\u00eb, magjis\u00eb s\u00eb saj. Sa e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, sa e bukur ka qen\u00eb dhe vazhdon deri sot. \u00cbsht\u00eb i bekuar nga Zoti,ai,ajo q\u00eb gjen shpirtin binjak dhe di t\u00eb dashuroj\u00eb, ta mbaj\u00eb fort, por fort ama, deri n\u00eb p\u00ebrjet\u00ebsi. <\/p>\n
\u201cGruaja ime, \u201ct\u00eb dua m\u00eb shum\u00eb se dje, m\u00eb pak se nes\u00ebr\u201d, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se do t\u00eb t\u00eb dua p\u00ebrdit\u00eb edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb.\u201d\u00a0 Murat Basha <\/p>\n
Sekrete q\u00eb e ruajn\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien <\/p>\n
Ka vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb sekret dashuria. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, nga ku lind shpresa dhe ia vlen t\u00eb rrezikosh gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr si dashuria. Jeta nuk matet nga \u00e7astet q\u00eb marrim frym\u00eb, por nga ato q\u00eb na kan\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb pa frym\u00eb. Kush ka fatin t\u00eb ket\u00eb mbetur disa \u00e7aste pa frym\u00eb, ka jetuar v\u00ebrtet, t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt fatkeq\u00ebsisht kan\u00eb vegjetuar, gjat\u00eb. Jemi mbi tok\u00eb p\u00ebr pak koh\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb le t\u00eb dashurojm\u00eb,jo t\u00eb urrehemi. Shpeshher\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb, nj\u00eb pasion, nj\u00eb dashuri e vret e kaluara e dikujt. Mos t\u2019i l\u00ebm\u00eb hijet e t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs t\u00eb vrasin dashurin\u00eb. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb isha un\u00eb, do thosha q\u00eb: “Mos gjyko m\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn time, se nuk jetoj m\u00eb atje! Kush jeton me t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn, vdes me t\u00eb. Do e mbyll me th\u00ebnien e famshme t\u00eb filmit monumental \u201cLove Story\u201d me Rayan O\u2019Nill dhe Ali McGraw:
\n\u201cDashuri do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb mos k\u00ebrkosh kurr\u00eb t\u00eb falur\u201d.
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Martesa e tyre e ka prekur p\u00ebrvjetorin e argjendt\u00eb. Pavar\u00ebsisht viteve dhe rrug\u00ebs n\u00ebp\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn kan\u00eb shkelur, asgj\u00eb nuk e ka zbehur pasionin, dashurin\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb i ka lidhur n\u00eb dy. Ndihen me fat. T\u00eb sjell\u00ebsh n\u00eb v\u00ebmendje sa hap e mbyll syt\u00eb,gjith\u00e7ka ka ndodhur me jet\u00ebn e tyre,\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj frym\u00ebmarrje q\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":15965,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-15964","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-te-tjera"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15964","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15964"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15964\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15966,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15964\/revisions\/15966"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15965"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15964"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15964"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15964"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}