{"id":15322,"date":"2022-08-24T16:04:01","date_gmt":"2022-08-24T16:04:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/?p=15322"},"modified":"2022-08-24T16:04:01","modified_gmt":"2022-08-24T16:04:01","slug":"bislim-ahmetaj-njerez-te-ndryshem-fate-te-ngjashme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/2022\/08\/24\/bislim-ahmetaj-njerez-te-ndryshem-fate-te-ngjashme\/","title":{"rendered":"Bislim Ahmetaj\/Njer\u00ebz t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm, fate t\u00eb ngjashme."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;U tha u ba, gruaja\u00a0 vendos n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, kot mburremi ne burrat&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb njeri\u00a0 q\u00eb e dua\u00a0 dhe e\u00a0 \u00e7moj fort\u00a0 natyr\u00ebn\u00a0 dhe njer\u00ebzit sidomos\u00a0 t\u00eb vendit tim.<br \/>\nKjo m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb mos resht\u00a0 s\u00eb eksploruari natyr\u00ebn\u00a0 dhe njer\u00ebzit.<br \/>\nT\u00eb udh\u00ebtosh \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb fitosh eksperienca, nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb takosh njer\u00ebz \u00ebsht\u00eb ti shtosh shpirtit thesare.<br \/>\nDje pasdite\u00a0 kur po ktheheshim\u00a0 nga Pogradeci e hodha n\u00eb diskutim brenda familjes time\u00a0 t\u00eb vog\u00ebl se ku mund ta\u00a0 ham\u00eb drek\u00ebn, p\u00ebrjashto\u00a0 mund\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb japin dy an\u00ebt e rrug\u00ebs nacionale.<br \/>\nEndi ishte rast\u00a0 i p\u00ebrjashtimit tim dhe u skualifikua pa v\u00ebrtetim, Vetimi si oportunist\u00a0 q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb, tha, ku t\u00eb doni.<br \/>\nAjrisi tha q\u00eb donte t\u00eb kthehej sa m\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi,\u00a0 nd\u00ebrsa nana e tyre Mimoza, bashk\u00ebudh\u00ebtarja\u00a0 ime e jet\u00ebs k\u00ebtu e 30 vite, tha q\u00eb dua t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb n\u00eb Gjinar.<br \/>\nI kishin mbetur n\u00eb mendje\u00a0 p\u00ebrshkrimet q\u00eb i kisha b\u00ebr\u00eb un\u00eb nj\u00eb\u00a0 udh\u00ebtimi n\u00eb at\u00eb vend me miqt\u00eb e mi t\u00eb letrave.<br \/>\nU tha u ba, gruaja\u00a0 vendos n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, kot mburremi ne burrat.<br \/>\nDeri sa mb\u00ebrrit\u00ebm\u00a0 n\u00eb fshat\u00a0 pati vet\u00ebm ankesa ndaj Moz\u00ebs, aty e mbrapa deri sa kthyem n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb ve\u00e7 lavdrime p\u00ebr vendimmarrjen e saj.<br \/>\nPor un\u00eb s&#8217;dua t\u00eb ndalem hi\u00e7\u00a0 te gastronomia, sh\u00ebrbimi, \u00e7mimi\u00a0 simbolik i drek\u00ebs, ajri i past\u00ebr dhe\u00a0 klima e fresk\u00ebt q\u00eb afron ky atraksion\u00a0 i njohur n\u00eb tregun\u00a0 turistik t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb.<br \/>\nDi\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr m\u00eb shtyu t\u00eb hedh disa mbresa nga kjo vizit\u00eb n\u00eb fshatin Gjinar dhe ajo di\u00e7ka ishte pik\u00ebrisht njeriu.<br \/>\nAi njeriu q\u00eb po e humbim, ai njeriu\u00a0 q\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje me dor\u00eb.<br \/>\nAi njeriu q\u00eb e gjen cep e n\u00eb cep t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb . <\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nUn\u00eb si poet e shkrimtar flas dhe ju afrohem\u00a0 njer\u00ebzve edhe pa i njohur fare.<br \/>\nI pyes p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin, p\u00ebr familjen, p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb.<br \/>\nKryesisht k\u00ebt\u00eb\u00a0 e b\u00ebj me njer\u00ebzit e mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb tret\u00eb por edhe me t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb.<br \/>\nKam v\u00ebn\u00eb re se ata\u00a0 jo vet\u00ebm nuk bezdisen, por p\u00ebrkundrazi ndihen mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar.<br \/>\nMosha e mesme\u00a0 burra dhe gra kam konstatuar q\u00eb jan\u00eb ma pordhac\u00eb , gjasme s&#8217;kan\u00eb\u00a0 koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb humbur edhe pse shumic\u00ebn e koh\u00ebs e harxhojn\u00eb pa asnj\u00eb efektivitet. <\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nPas drek\u00ebs n\u00eb Bujtin\u00ebn &#8220;Andrra&#8221; u ul\u00ebm n\u00eb q\u00ebnd\u00ebr t\u00eb fshatit n\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej dy a tri bar-kafeve q\u00eb gjend\u00ebn\u00a0 aty .<br \/>\nN\u00eb qoshen e majt\u00eb t\u00eb verand\u00ebs ishin dy vajza t\u00eb reja n\u00ebn shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e kamarjerit simpatik.<br \/>\nN\u00eb qoshen tjet\u00ebr qe ulur e vetme nj\u00eb grua n\u00eb mosh\u00eb, veshur me t\u00eb zeza , me tipare t\u00eb skalitura q\u00eb tregonin q\u00eb kishte q\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb grua e hijshme, ve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj me personalitet t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe krenare.<br \/>\nSapo hodha nja dy a tri romuze tek tavolina e t\u00eb rinj\u00ebve, shkova tek tavolina e zonj\u00ebs s\u00eb moshuar.<br \/>\nE nisa shtruar bised\u00ebn me t\u00eb.<br \/>\nHistoria e saj m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb qaj.<br \/>\nBurri e kishte l\u00ebn\u00eb para shum\u00eb vitesh, e vetme ja kish dal\u00eb t\u00eb rriste dy djemt\u00eb e tyre.<br \/>\nAta, djemt\u00eb si shumica e t\u00eb rinj\u00ebve kishin vite q\u00eb jetonin n\u00eb Itali, por m\u00eb e keqja nj\u00ebri prej tyre\u00a0 kishte vdekur n\u00eb nj\u00eb aksident automobilistik tragjik pa i mbushur t\u00eb 30-at.<br \/>\n&#8220;Ma ka l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn, prap\u00eb kam dy djem, djalin e vog\u00ebl dhe nipin, djalin e djalit.&#8221;<br \/>\nNd\u00ebrsa syt\u00eb e mi pas syzeve u lag\u00ebn, asaj i rrodh\u00ebn dy lot\u00eb kristal q\u00eb i fshiu pa i ra posht\u00eb moll\u00ebzave&#8230;<br \/>\nMe zor e qerasa me nj\u00eb fanta.<br \/>\nE pranoj dhe m\u00eb uroj me zem\u00ebr n\u00eb dor\u00eb\u00a0 p\u00ebr ato pak minuta q\u00eb i kushtova.<br \/>\n&#8220;Jetoj mir\u00eb, s&#8217;m\u00eb mungon asgj\u00eb, po na griu vetmia more bir.<br \/>\nDal\u00eb e rri n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kafe, e cila pas\u00a0 pak mbushet plot me pleq e plaka.<br \/>\nFlasim p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, p\u00ebr nip\u00ebr e p\u00ebr mbesa. Po nata\u00a0 nuk shtyhet, \u00ebsht\u00eb e gjat\u00eb ferr.&#8221;<br \/>\nI mora leje t\u00eb b\u00ebja nj\u00eb foto me t\u00eb dhe i tregova q\u00eb do ta nxjerr n\u00eb rrjetet\u00a0 sociale ndoshta edhe n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb\u00a0 gazet\u00eb .<br \/>\n&#8220;Nxire ku t\u00eb duash\u00a0 mor bir, ta ruajt\u00eb per\u00ebndia kok\u00ebn dhe familjen&#8230;.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nBised\u00ebn me zonj\u00ebn\u00a0 fisnike nga Gjinari e ndoq\u00ebn e gjith\u00eb familja ime q\u00eb ishte vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb tavolin\u00eb larg.<br \/>\nAshtu t\u00eb prekur u nis\u00ebm t\u00eb zbrisnim\u00a0 drejt\u00a0 Elbasanit.<br \/>\nNja tre- kat\u00ebrqind metra m\u00eb posht\u00eb\u00a0 pash\u00eb nj\u00eb dardh\u00eb plot me kokrra q\u00eb skuqnin nga pjekja.<br \/>\nU ndal\u00ebm, dol\u00ebm nga makina t\u00eb gjith\u00eb.<br \/>\nN\u00eb rrugin\u00ebn q\u00eb\u00a0 t\u00eb nxirte\u00a0 n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e asfaltuar po ngjitej\u00a0 nj\u00eb plak shum\u00eb i moshuar.<br \/>\nEcte me hapa t\u00eb leht\u00eb dhe tep\u00ebr ngadal\u00eb duke u mbajtur n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkop t\u00eb sajuar.<br \/>\nE p\u00ebrshendeta nga larg, mu p\u00ebrgjigj\u00a0 me nj\u00eb z\u00eb\u00a0 burri\u00a0 q\u00eb tregonte jo vet\u00ebm v\u00ebndosm\u00ebri, por edhe dinjitet.<br \/>\nPasi u afruam ja dham\u00eb dor\u00ebn nj\u00ebri tjetrit sikur t\u00eb ishim t\u00eb njohur t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr.<br \/>\nFjala e dyt\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb tha ishte &#8220;Hajdeni shkojm\u00eb nga shpia, merri t\u00eb gjith\u00eb familjen.&#8221;<br \/>\nI thash\u00eb q\u00eb jemi p\u00ebr rrug\u00eb, por ndal\u00ebm\u00a0 se pash\u00eb dardh\u00ebn posht\u00eb rrug\u00ebs.<br \/>\n&#8220;Shko e merr sa t\u00eb duash, por kujdes mos biesh e vritesh.&#8221;<br \/>\nI kishte kaluar\u00a0 t\u00eb 90-at, dhe i tregonte, ishte i l\u00ebshuar, t\u00ebrhiqej thuajse zvarr\u00eb\u00a0 p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos z\u00ebn\u00eb krevatin.<br \/>\n&#8220;Po u shtriva n\u00eb krevat varri m\u00eb \u00e7on\u00a0 prej tij, plaka\u00a0 m\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb tash 10 vite.<br \/>\nSi\u00e7\u00a0 duket se paskam dashur aq sa duhej dhe tani\u00a0 po e vuaj d\u00ebnimin\u00a0 e saj.\u00a0<br \/>\nKam gjasht\u00eb djem t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb martuar e me f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<br \/>\nQ\u00eb t\u00eb gjasht\u00eb\u00a0 bashk\u00eb\u00a0 me familjet e tyre jetojn\u00eb jasht\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb nga Greqia n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb.<br \/>\nN\u00eb ver\u00eb vin\u00eb thuajse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb,\u00a0 tani e kam sht\u00ebpin\u00eb plot.<br \/>\nNdaj t\u00eb thash\u00eb\u00a0 hajdeni n\u00eb shpi\u00a0 se ka kush jua b\u00ebn\u00eb\u00a0 kafen\u00eb, ka kush ju nxjerr rakin\u00eb dhe mezen.<br \/>\nM\u00eb kan\u00eb lutur djemt\u00eb t&#8217;ju shkoj nga pas, e kam provuar, por un\u00eb k\u00ebtu kam lindur dhe k\u00ebtu dua t\u00eb vdes- vazhdonte e fliste gjith\u00eb mburrje plaku i urt\u00eb.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>Me burrin n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb thyer q\u00eb nisi t\u00eb m\u00eb tregonte se ishte dikushi as qam\u00eb, as u jargavit\u00ebm, por u ndam\u00eb si burrat\u00a0 e maleve duke u p\u00ebrqafuar me prekje\u00a0 krye p\u00ebr krye dy a tri her\u00eb&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nDuke u larguar nga ato male dhe duke\u00a0 m\u00eb r\u00ebnduar mendimi q\u00eb Shqip\u00ebria mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb azili m\u00eb i madh n\u00eb bot\u00eb p\u00ebr num\u00ebr popullsie, gjithashtu m\u00eb i paorganizuari n\u00eb rruazin tok\u00ebsor.\u00a0<br \/>\nRreth shtat\u00ebqind\u00a0 mij\u00eb pensionist\u00eb jetojn\u00eb shumica e tyre sa nga krenaria, aq nga pamund\u00ebsia t\u00eb vetmuar n\u00ebp\u00ebr sht\u00ebpit\u00eb q\u00eb jua kan\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar n\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebn\u00a0\u00a0 e rasteve f\u00ebmij\u00ebt emigrant.<br \/>\nAta f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb i ka &#8220;p\u00ebrz\u00ebn\u00eb&#8221; atdheu\u00a0 i tyre nd\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb bekuarit n\u00eb planet.<br \/>\nHer\u00eb me d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e tyre dhe shumic\u00ebn e her\u00ebve nga politikat e mbrapshta t\u00eb qeverive antishqiptare q\u00eb nuk vin\u00eb\u00a0 n\u00eb pushtet\u00a0 p\u00ebrmes vot\u00ebs, por p\u00ebrmes dallavereve ballkanike, parave\u00a0 t\u00eb drog\u00ebs dhe korrupsionit.\u00a0<br \/>\nMosha e tret\u00eb kjo plag\u00eb\u00a0 e dhimbshme sociale po tretet nga vetmia, ajo ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dashuri\u00a0 dhe respekt.<br \/>\nAta kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Jepjuani o njer\u00ebz t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb mesme\u00a0 se koh\u00eb edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqia\u00a0 ju presin, na presin&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/E742B944-3FBF-4BA9-8A7D-F6262970E4B3-235x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"235\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-15323\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/E742B944-3FBF-4BA9-8A7D-F6262970E4B3-235x300.jpeg 235w, https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/E742B944-3FBF-4BA9-8A7D-F6262970E4B3.jpeg 752w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 235px) 100vw, 235px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/E11FF74A-7659-4C0A-A503-A3D27D37F4D4-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-15324\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/E11FF74A-7659-4C0A-A503-A3D27D37F4D4-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/neutrale.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/E11FF74A-7659-4C0A-A503-A3D27D37F4D4.jpeg 591w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;U tha u ba, gruaja\u00a0 vendos n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, kot mburremi ne burrat&#8230; Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb njeri\u00a0 q\u00eb e dua\u00a0 dhe e\u00a0 \u00e7moj fort\u00a0 natyr\u00ebn\u00a0 dhe njer\u00ebzit sidomos\u00a0 t\u00eb vendit tim. Kjo m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb mos resht\u00a0 s\u00eb eksploruari natyr\u00ebn\u00a0 dhe njer\u00ebzit. T\u00eb udh\u00ebtosh \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb fitosh eksperienca, nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb takosh njer\u00ebz \u00ebsht\u00eb ti shtosh shpirtit [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":15325,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-15322","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-opinione"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15322","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15322"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15322\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15326,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15322\/revisions\/15326"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15325"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neutrale.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}